EFT Externship 2027– A 4-Day Workshop with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

General Information

Title: EFT Externship 2027– A 4-Day Workshop with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

Presenter: Debi Scimeca-Diaz, LMFT

Dates: Monday - Thursday. March 1-4, 2027. 9:00am - 5:00pm each day.

Fee: $1645. Special $150 discount for first 15 registrants. Current fee is $1495. Payment Plans Available. Includes 24 CE credits. Meals (coffee/refreshments and lunch), and all materials.

Venue: Doubletree by Hilton Mahwah. (Right outside Monsey)

CE Credits: 24

EFT Externship 2027– A 4-Day Workshop with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

Description

Emotionally Focused Therapy, often called EFT, is a form of therapy that strives to help individuals identify the underlying emotions that guide their relationships. The EFT approach was first developed by Susan Johnson and Les Greenberg in the 1980s, and it continues to become one of the most popular and effective ways to improve relationships. EFT is a data validated approach to therapy, based in attachment theory. It is used with couples, families, individuals, and even businesses. Focused on creating connections in relationships. EFT leads to greater fulfillment and success.

The EFT Externship, as developed by Dr. Sue Johnson and presented by ICEEFT-Certified Trainer Debi Scimeca-Diaz, LMFT, LCADC, is more than just an introduction to Emotionally Focused Therapy. It is an educational and experiential immersion in learning a new and empirically validated way to work with couples. The EFT Externship is the first step toward EFT Certification

The 4-day EFT externship is not days of lectures and slides. Debi Scimeca-Diaz is a powerful, passionate presenter who believes in “teach, show, do,” which means you will learn through a variety of modalities, including: watching and discussing clinical videos of EFT therapists working with couples; practicing through role plays and experiential exercises that will help you “feel” the model in a safe, supportive way through the assistance of advanced EFT clinicians; and processing through daily small-group “homeroom” sessions, which are a supportive place for questions and group discussion… Additionally, you will have the opportunity to witness Debi practice the model through TWO LIVE CONSULTATIONS, working with two different volunteer client couples.

You will leave the Externship with a new way to conceptualize your work with couples and a road map for how to work in the moment, in the room with them, so that you are more confident in helping your couples reconnect and repair. As often reported by attendees, you may also leave the Externship with a more compassionate way to see the relationships in your own life.

Instructors

Debi Scimeca-Diaz, LMFT, LCADC  is a certified trainer by the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEFT) which is the organization that certifies the program and the presenters. Dr. Sue Johnson, who founded ICEEFT, in 1998, heads the organization in Ottawa, Canada, and personally oversees the training and competency of all the core group of people who are certified to teach EFT. The Centre offers educational courses and training to mental health professionals (externships, workshops, core training, etc.), provides certification for EFT therapists around the world and undertakes clinical research studies. ICEEFT works closely with its various affiliated EFT Centers and Communities.

Debi Scimeca-Diaz Professional Background

• Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
• Certified Emotionally Focused Trainer and Supervisor (www.ICEEFT.com)
• Clinical Member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT)
• AAMFT Approved Supervisor
• Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor
• With over 25 years experience in the field

EFT Externship 2027– A 4-Day Workshop with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

Objectives

1. 1. Identify the commonality of different therapeutic approaches that leads to success based on client feedback

2. 2. Demonstrate a clear understanding of the basic experiential and systematic concepts of the EFT approach to couples therapy

3. 3. begin to conceptualize couple's distress as insecure attachment bond

4. 4. identify the similarities of EFT and other models of therapy

5. 5. describe the attachment significance in loving relationships

6. 6. identify the 3 stages of EFT

7. 7. identify skills used to be build a strong alliance and the importance of attunement in EFT

8. 8. assess a couple through the attachment lens and how to screen for possible concerns or contraindications in using EFT.

9. 9. describe the importance of emotions and emotional processing in EFT

10. 10. track negative cycles that lead to couple distress

11. 11. Demonstrate how to integrate attachment longings and their significance into couple interventions.

12. 12. identify and utilize the 5 basic moves of the EFT Tango

13. 13. develop skills in helping partners access the underlying emotional that maintain relational distress

14. 14. develop skills that can be used to move into present process

15. 15. identify interventions used in EFT to help move clients through the change events in EFT

16. 16. develop skills in helping partners shape new interactional patterns and bonding events

17. 17. describe what secure attachment looks like in healthy relationships

18. 18. describe the distress of an insecure anxious-avoidant strategy of coping (withdrawers inner world)

19. 19. describe the distress of an insecure anxious- strategy of coping (pursuers inner world)

20. 20. define and identify what an attachment injury is in significant relationships.

CE Information

Continuing Education Credits are granted through Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC for the following professions: Psychologists, Social workers, Mental Health Counselors, LMFTs, and LCATs. It is the participant’s responsibility to check with their individual state boards to verify CE requirements for their state.

Please Note: Licensing Boards change regulations often, and while we attempt to stay abreast of their most recent changes, if you have questions or concerns about this course meeting your specific board’s approval, we recommend you contact your board directly to obtain a ruling. 

APA 

Nachas Consulting is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC maintains responsibility for this program and its content. 

ASWB

Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC, 2035, is approved to offer social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB) Approved Continuing Education (ACE) program. Regulatory boards are the final authority on courses accepted for continuing education credit. ACE provider approval period: 08/02/2025 – 08/02/2028 Social workers completing this course receive 25 clinical continuing education credits.

 

NBCC 

Neuhoff Psychological Consulting PLLC has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7503. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, LLC is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. 

 

New York State Social Workers  

Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed social workers #SW-0785. 

 

New York State Mental Health Counselors  

Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Mental Health Practitioners as an approved provider of continuing education for Mental Health Counselor #MHC-0195 

 

New York State Psychology  

Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Psychology as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed psychologists #PSY-0072. 

 

 New York State Marriage Therapy 

Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Mental Health Practitioners as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed marriage and family therapists #MFT-0121. 

 

New York State Creative Arts Therapist  

Neuhoff Psychological Consulting, PLLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Mental Health Practitioners as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed creative arts therapists. #CAT-0112. 

References

Cheung, J. C., Leung, G. S., Lam, Y.-M., & Chan, W.-T. (2022). Emotionally focused therapy group intervention for parents of primary school students with parenting stress: An evaluation study in Hong Kong. Asia Pacific Journal of Social Work and Development. https://doi.org/10.1080/02185385.2022.2092770

Ceniza, M., & Allan, R. (2021). Conceptual and application considerations of emotionally focused therapy with white heterosexual working-class rural males. The Family Journal, 29(2), 200-207.

Ganz, M. B., Rasmussen, H. F., McDougall, T. V., Corner, G. W., Black, T. T., & De Los Santos, H. F. (2022). Emotionally focused couple therapy within VA healthcare: Reductions in relationship distress, PTSD, and depressive symptoms as a function of attachment-based couple treatment. Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, 11(1), 15-32.

Kailanko, S., Wiebe, S. A., Tasca, G. A., & Laitila, A. A. (2021). Impact of repeating somatic cues on the depth of experiencing for withdrawers and pursuers in emotionally focused couple therapy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 48(3), 693-708.

Kailanko, S., Wiebe, S. A., Tasca, G. A., & Laitila, A. A. (2022). Somatic interventions and depth of experiencing in emotionally focused couple therapy. International Journal of Systemic Therapy, 33(2), 109-128.

Koren, R., Woolley, S. R., Danis, I., & Török, S. (2022). Training therapists in emotionally focused therapy: A longitudinal and cross-sectional analysis. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 48(3), 709-725.

Schafer, L., Edwards, C. P., Allan, R., Johnson, S. M., Wiebe, S. A., Chyurlia, L., & Tasca, G. A. (2021). Development of the emotionally focused individual therapy adherence measure (EFIT-AM): Conceptualization and preliminary reliability. Counselling and Psychotherapy Research, advance online publication.

Tapia-Fuselier, J. L., Ray, D. C., Allan, R., & Reyes, A. G. (2022). Emotionally focused therapists’ experiences serving interabled couples in couple therapy: An interpretative phenomenological analysis. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, advance online publication.

Satisfactory Completion:

Participants must have signed in and out, attended the entire workshop to receive a certificate.  Failure to sign/log in or out will result in forfeiture of credit for the entire course. No exceptions will be made. Partial credit is not available. Certificates are available electronically after satisfactory course completion. A link will be provided for those who have completed the training.

EFT Externship 2027– A 4-Day Workshop with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

Policies

Application Deadline: February 28, 2027 or until all training spaces are filled, whichever comes first.

Notification of Acceptance

Applicants will be notified, via email, of acceptance when registration is complete, and payment is received.

Refund/Cancellation Policy 

Tuition/registration payments are refundable until February 1, 2027. Cancellations after this date are non-refundable. In this situation, we will attempt to find someone to take your slot (based on our waiting list).

Accessibility

There will be handicap accessibility.

Course level

Introductory

Level of clinician 

Introductory

Our Grievance Policy for trainings is available here. 

 

EFT Externship 2027– A 4-Day Workshop with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

Schedule

Monday - Thursday. March 1-4, 2027. 9:00am - 5:00pm each day.

Day 1: Foundations of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

9:00 AM – 9:30 AM
Welcome, Introductions, and Overview of the Four-Day Training

9:30 AM – 10:00 AM
Attachment Theory: A Guide for Psychotherapy

10:00 AM – 10:30 AM
Basics of the EFT Model: Experiential and Systemic Foundations

10:30 AM – 10:40 AM
Break

10:40 AM – 11:30 AM
Attachment Theory Overview

11:30 AM – 12:00 PM
Research Supporting EFT

12:00 PM – 1:00 PM
Lunch Break

1:00 PM – 1:30 PM
Questions and Discussion from Morning Sessions

1:30 PM – 2:30 PM
Working with Emotion in EFT

2:30 PM – 3:15 PM
Experiential Practice Session: Working with Emotion

3:15 PM – 3:45 PM
The Three Stages and Nine Steps of EFT Across Modalities

3:45 PM – 3:55 PM
Break

3:55 PM – 4:20 PM
Introduction to the EFT Tango

4:20 PM – 4:40 PM
Video Demonstration: Stage 1 of EFT and Clinical Processing

4:40 PM – 5:00 PM
Day 1 Wrap-Up, Questions, and Discussion


Day 2: Assessment and Understanding Relationship Cycles

9:00 AM – 9:30 AM
Presentation of the Live Couple Case

9:30 AM – 10:45 AM
Observation of Live EFT Session

10:45 AM – 11:15 AM
Couple and Trainer Feedback Session

11:15 AM – 11:25 AM
Break

11:25 AM – 12:15 PM
Discussion of Live Session: Identifying EFT Stages and Tango Moves

12:15 PM – 1:15 PM
Lunch Break

1:15 PM – 2:00 PM
Small Group Role Play Based on the Live Session

2:00 PM – 2:45 PM
Assessment and Alliance Building (Step 1 of EFT)

2:45 PM – 3:45 PM
Tracking Negative Interaction Cycles (Step 2 of EFT)

3:45 PM – 3:55 PM
Break

3:55 PM – 4:40 PM
Practice Session: Assessment and Negative Cycle Interventions

4:40 PM – 5:00 PM
Role Play Debrief and Discussion


Day 3: EFT Interventions and De-escalation

9:00 AM – 9:30 AM
Presentation of the Live Couple Case

9:30 AM – 10:45 AM
Observation of Live EFT Session

10:45 AM – 11:15 AM
Couple and Trainer Feedback Session

11:15 AM – 11:25 AM
Break

11:25 AM – 12:15 PM
Discussion of Live Session: EFT Stages, Tango Moves, and Interventions

12:15 PM – 1:15 PM
Lunch Break

1:15 PM – 1:45 PM
Small Group Role Play Based on the Live Session

1:45 PM – 2:15 PM
Accessing Softer Emotions (Step 3 of EFT)

2:15 PM – 2:45 PM
Tasks of the EFT Therapist and Advanced Tango Interventions

2:45 PM – 3:15 PM
Markers for De-escalation and the Attachment Reframe

3:15 PM – 3:45 PM
Review of the Three Change Events in EFT

3:45 PM – 3:55 PM
Break

3:55 PM – 4:40 PM
The Process of Change in EFT: Nine Steps, Three Stages, and Stage 1 to Stage 2 Transition

4:40 PM – 5:00 PM
Questions and Discussion


Day 4: Stage 2 Change Events and Professional Development

9:00 AM – 9:30 AM
Group Check-In and Review of Day 3 Material

9:30 AM – 10:20 AM
Stage 2 Change Event: Withdrawer Re-engagement

10:20 AM – 10:30 AM
Break

10:30 AM – 11:00 AM
Video Demonstration: Withdrawer Re-engagement and Clinical Processing

11:00 AM – 11:30 AM
Practice Session: Working with a De-escalated Couple

11:30 AM – 12:30 PM
Stage 2 Change Event: Pursuer Softening

12:30 PM – 1:30 PM
Lunch Break

1:30 PM – 2:00 PM
Small Group Discussion: Understanding the Inner World of Pursuers

2:00 PM – 3:00 PM
Next Steps: Becoming an EFT Therapist

3:00 PM – 3:30 PM
Group Process, Self of the Therapist, and Takeaways

EFT Externship 2027– A 4-Day Workshop with Debi Scimeca-Diaz

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